Long-distance quiz: how well do you know me?

Distance makes the small details matter more. Make a 10-question quiz about yourself, send it across the time zones, and give your next call something fun to talk about.

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The 10 questions in this quiz

You tap your true answer; your long-distance partner has to guess it. You can swap any question before sharing.

1. 📞 Text or call?
Text, always — calls are an ambush · Call — texting takes too long · Depends entirely on my mood · Voice notes, the superior option
2. 🔋 What's my phone battery usually at?
Charged and ready, 80%+ · Comfortably mid, 40–60% · Living dangerously under 20% · Perpetually on 1% and thriving
3. 😴 What time do I actually fall asleep?
Before 10pm, like a responsible adult · Around midnight · Way past midnight, every night · It changes wildly every day
4. 🌅 What am I like in the morning?
Annoyingly cheerful · Functional after coffee · Do not speak to me for an hour · What is a morning
5. 🏖️ What's my dream vacation style?
Beach, book, do absolutely nothing · City trip, itinerary in a spreadsheet · Mountains and hiking boots · Road trip with no fixed plan
6. 🍿 What's my snack personality?
Salty — chips and crackers · Sweet — chocolate and candy · Both, in the same sitting · Weirdly healthy — fruit and nuts
7. 🎧 What am I most likely listening to?
The same playlist on repeat forever · Whatever is trending right now · Podcasts, mostly · A different genre every hour
8. 🌧️ A rainy day means…
Perfect cozy indoor day · Ruined plans, personally offended · Walk in it anyway · Nap weather, goodnight
9. 🎁 What's my love language?
Quality time together · Words — tell me you love me · Thoughtful little gifts · Acts of service — do the dishes
10. 🫂 When I am sad, I want you to…
Hug me and say nothing · Distract me — make me laugh · Help me fix the actual problem · Give me space, then snacks

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25 more questions to ask your long-distance partner

Use these out loud, on a date or a call, or turn your favourites into a letter.

What time is it where I am right now?
What is the first thing I do when we hang up?
Which of our calls is my favourite memory?
What do I miss most about being with you?
What will we do first when we see each other?
What is my favourite thing you have sent me in the post?
What is my go-to snack during our video calls?
What is my favourite city we have been to together?
What song reminds me of you?
When is our next visit?
What is my love language?
What do I do when I miss you?
What is my favourite photo of us?
Which app do we use most to talk?
What is my favourite thing about your city?
What is my dream city for us to live in together?
What is my favourite hoodie or comfy outfit?
Who falls asleep first on calls?
What is my favourite way to say goodnight?
What am I looking forward to most this month?
What is something I have learned about you because of the distance?
What gift would I love to get in the post?
What is the longest we have gone without seeing each other?
What is my favourite memory from our last visit?
What do I want our first week living together to look like?

Tip: Pair the quiz with an “open when” letter scheduled for the day before your next visit.

Questions people ask

How do I make a "how well do you know me" quiz for your long-distance partner?

Open the ready-made quiz, type your name, tap your true answer to each of the 10 questions (swap any you do not like), and press share. Send the link to your long-distance partner; their score appears on your private scoreboard as soon as they finish. It is free and needs no account.

Can I change the questions?

Yes. Swap any question for another from the question bank before you share it. For questions only the two of you would know, use the written list on this page as a conversation game.

Who can see the results?

Everyone who takes the quiz sees their own score. The full scoreboard is on your private link, so you decide who sees how everyone did.